A crazy thing happened to me today. It seemed that someone slipped passed my captcha code and begin to bomb my email inbox with a whole bunch of trashy spam. I have several email accounts. So I’ve built up a tolerance for spam. I treat them like my grey hairs. I pluck them out one at a time. But today, I opened my inbox to find a litany of trash mail. I got invitations from nasty college girls who wanted to invite me to their dorm. I received messages from MILF’s who were looking for booty calls. And I was cordially invited to be involved with a community of casual sex buddies. Yuk! Suddenly I felt dirty like I had just participated in some kind of raunchy sexual tryst. I scrubbed my email box like it had been infected with a sexual virus. It was only after I finished that I got the message that my ancestors was sending me. People really didn’t have a clue! They didn’t realize that sex was a means of finding God.
So I guess you didn’t expect to hear that. Historically speaking sex and God hasn’t really been a good mix. I suppose it all started when someone decided that sex was bad and sinful. So this way of thinking caused people to have more sex, they just needed to feel guilty about it afterwards. The guilt makes us not want to connect, find love, or be vulnerable. This is perhaps the reason why so many of us have intimacy issues. So we look for the quick fix. We long for the one-night stands, the casual encounters, and the friends with benefits. Sadly, we fail to realize that all sexual encounters are relationship encounters. Ouch! I know that was hard to hear, especially for the people who have commitment issues and avoids relationships like the plague.
There are a lot of people who would disagree with me. But I truly believe that every person that we come across in life is a relationship that helps us to learn more about ourselves. As human beings, we long for intimacy, love, and affection. We need all of these things in order for our souls to grow. So we pull people into our lives that can help us heal our wounds while finding balance. Many people don’t understand the concepts of relationships, so lovemaking has become very disjointed. People start to take on a methodical approach where they treat lovemaking like it’s a mathematical equation. They really feel that they can plug in a few numbers and get the desired result.
Or they treat lovemaking like it is a machine in need of an oil change and tune-up. When things get dull and boring, they spice things up with sex toys, DVDs and extramarital affairs. They try different positions and techniques as if lovemaking is based on just performance. Wake up! You’re not driving a car. You are looking to find your other half. You are looking to connect with someone who resonates with your soul. This is really what Tantra is all about. However, you can only do this when you’re totally balanced within yourself. Once you’re balanced, you are able to connect with people on a much deeper level. You will be able to create this synergy where you move, communicate, and even act as one. This concept of sexual energy is explored in my e-course. It is only when you have this balanced that you’ll be able to create the resounding climax that you long for. This is the climax of creation and love that stems from only one source, God.