I’ve counseled a lot of men. As usual, they tend to get comfortable and tell me that they can’t understand why any woman, who looks half way decent, can’t get a man. “You’re women, you can have sex whenever you want to,” they all say. This is when I have to explain to them that it is not quite that simple. Besides, just because we can do something, doesn’t mean that we want to. Claudia Jordan from Housewives of Atlanta said it best, “women like sex and gifts too, but we aren’t willing to put the extra mileage on our vaginas to get it.” Why? Women don’t want to be too promiscuous because it weighs us down. It causes us to look haggard, and as beat-up as an old hooptie. Most importantly, we lose our light. This is the light that we need to draw men in. If we don’t have this light, then men simply won’t find us attractive. So in this article, I am going to show you how you can tap into this divine power to cast free voodoo love spells.
I want him to love me, but he says that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship!
How many times have we women heard that before? Well, I am going to tell it to you straight, sex is a relationship. People have fooled themselves into believing that they can have sexual encounters, without sacrificing their vulnerability, or without losing control. In my other article, How to Cast Voodoo Love Spells to Keep Men from Cheating, I talk about how men use sex to feed a part of their soul that is broken, weak, or damaged. They also need sex for nourishment, because they suffer from an imbalance of yin/yang energies. In more severe cases, this dysfunction makes them dependent on women for sexual fulfillment. However, if you love someone and he doesn’t love you back, it means that your light is not strong enough to pull him in. But don’t worry, it’s nothing that a quick love spell can’t help.
Why is it so difficult to find the love of your life?
There is something that we as women need to understand. We need to understand that we have been suppressed and subjugated all throughout history. In ancient times, there were powerful goddesses, healers, and female rulers. Now, we just have voodoo queens, witches, crazy people, and hags. Today, this presents a huge problem, simply because many women are unaware of their power. So this power is laying doormat inside of us. The only problem is that we don’t always have the means to access it. Furthermore, the dysfunctional imbalance between male and female relationships is pushing this power further and further down. This makes it very difficult for us to find love. To make matters even worse, we women are constantly under attack.
Why doesn’t he like me, am I not good enough?
That was a questioned that I always asked myself when faced with rejection. Then, the information came to me when I was reading an African play title Damaged. In this play, African men were raping the wives of soldiers as a war tactic. Once these women were raped, their fathers, brothers, and husbands ostracized them. They were simply labeled as “Damaged” and forced to live the rest of their lives as prostitutes working in a brothel. We may think that only “primitive” people such as the Africans behave this way. But, the same thing has been happening in the Western World, only on a more subconscious level.
“Black Women are the Mules of the Earth”
Zora Neale Hurston
What does it really mean, when you feel like you’re being used in a relationship?
We women need to learn how to protect ourselves from negative energy. We need to understand the concept of energetic dumping. We have a great deal of pain and trauma that is trapped in our energetic bodies. Sadly, this pain can be transferred as negative energy to our partners. In fact, this is the kind of negative energy that manifests into sexually transmitted diseases, as well as other sexual dysfunctions. Since the divine feminine essence is suppressed, we no longer have the defenses to fight off these kinds of malignant energies. So what happens? We get sick, we look haggard, we lose our light, and the ability to attract a lover or soul mate. Most importantly, we get into the habit of taking on other people’s pain.
Watch out for the energetic vampire!
We not only have to watch out for the energetic vampire, the person who takes our energy. We also have to look out for the people who dump their negative energy on us. We as women are forced to carry around other people’s baggage. Men are attracted to the light that we women have. Sadly, men have been contaminating women by dimming their light. For ages, they have been subconsciously––and consciously dumping negative energy into women. I often get so many women who can’t understand how their husband could just get up and leave. How could he leave his family behind, and start a new one, without any feelings of guilt or remorse. Men are able to do this because they’re constantly dumping energy into women they have sex with. By doing this, they never really have to deal with their emotions or pain. All they have to do is find another woman to dump on.
The dumping of negative energy is the number one reason why most voodoo love spells don’t work.
So what can you do about it? Well, you can start by doing a Yemaya cleansing spell. Yemaya is the Orisha of the sea. She will help you drop that painful karmic weight, and be restored to the status of a Goddess.
- The first thing that you need to do is recreate the sea. Run your bath and add salt to it.
- Pray over the water, ask Yemaya to cleanse you from all the negative energies from your past relationships.
- Sprinkle the water over your naked body from head to toe, using your fingers or a rosemary branch.
- Put on close, preferably a white or blue gown, refrain from wearing any underwear.
- Continue to prey and petition to Yemaya.
- Rinse and repeat for at least seven days. After seven days, you should feel lighter and cleaner. Once you feel clean, you can try and cast a love spell again.
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