There are all types of men to avoid. There are the drug addicts, the alcoholics, the abusers, the losers, the dead-beat dads, and momma’s boys. I know that there are a lot of women who are thinking that there are slim pickings. This is why they’re very upset when they meet someone who is half way decent, only to find out that he has commitment issues. Or worse yet, he is just emotionally unavailable. So what do you do? Do you throw him back, only to see that another woman has snagged him up and married him? Or do you fight for him? In this video I am going to explain the inner workings of emotionally unavailable men, and give you a psychic love spell that might just get him to change his ways. So stay tune!
Emotionally unavailable men characteristics.
Firstly, we have to understand that men are just as emotional as women. The whole idea that men don’t think with their emotions is just a bunch of bullshit. Women express their emotions differently. Men, have a hard time with their emotions, because it’s not masculine to be vulnerable or allow emotions to ruin––I mean run their lives. In fact, many men are highly emotional, they just use their Egos to cover up their emotions.
So I hear the same story from women. Their man is afraid to commit. He doesn’t listen to what they have to say. They feel like he shuts down whenever they start talking about marriage or progressing in the relationship. Here’s my number one tip. Stop talking. Men don’t communicate in relationships like women do. They are very uncomfortable with emotions and would rather chew on shards of glass than talk about their feelings. Stop communicating with him as if he’s a woman. He’s not! Instead, you need to understand his fear and why he is the way he is.
What causes emotionally unavailable men?
We all understand that emotionally unavailable men have experienced some form of childhood abuse or trauma. However, many of us don’t fully understand how strong our emotional memory is. Our emotional memory is like energizer bunny, when our mental and muscle memories fade, our emotional memory goes on and on and on and on. In fact, people with dementia, schizophrenia, and Alzheimer’s still have a strong emotional memory. A long emotional memory can be great if is filled with happiness, bliss and love. However, it can be damaging to both people in a relationship if is riddled with trauma, unhappiness, and despair. Why? Negative emotions cloud our judgements and misleads us to believe that everything and everyone is bad. These people can’t believe that people can’t be kind, without wanting something. They believe that everyone has got a hustle. Or, they believe that somebody is hiding something. These are the people who believe that the good times won’t last long, so they need to get all that they can before things go sour. This is the reason why emotionally unavailable men are so charismatic and vocal in the beginning of the relationship.
Emotionally unavailable men patterns.
The problem with emotionally unavailable men is that they’re crying on the inside and happy on the outside. I like to tell people that the emotionally unavailable man is like the crying baby. We all know what we do with a crying baby. We change his diaper and hope that the crying will stop. When that doesn’t work, we try feeding him. When feeding him doesn’t work, we try burping him. When burping him doesn’t work, we take him to the doctor, only to find out that the baby has a fever, and we are going to be up all night, tending to the baby, and helping him break his fever. You see, the baby couldn’t communicate to us what’s wrong. It would be up to us, the woman, the mother, to figure it out. Sadly, we are going to have to do the same thing, when dating an emotionally unavailable man. It is important to understand that all relationships are about healing. Many of us are attracted to certain people because there is something inside of us that is aligned with either their weaknesses or strengths. So by helping the other person, we are in turn, helping ourselves.
How to get an emotionally unavailable man to open up?
I had an issue with a man who I was extremely close to. Everything was going fine, and then one day, he just stopped talking to me. I couldn’t understand what I did wrong. Sometimes, it is hard for me to do magic on myself and on loved ones, because I am just too close to everything. So I reached out to a friend of mine, who was also a shaman. So the shaman went into an altered state of consciousness and sent out an eagle. The eagle was of course, his power animal. So the eagle was pecking into this man’s head, like a wood pecker on a piece of wood. Then, the eagle breaks the man’s skull and crawls into his head. So then, the shaman tells me to wait two weeks, and then reach out to him again. So I follow the shaman’s instructions. After two weeks, I reach out to this man and I am completely terrified, because I think that he’s going to slam the phone down, or curse me out. He didn’t do any of that. Instead, we began to engage in a very cordial conversation. In fact, we are closer now than ever before.
Do emotionally unavailable men change?
So what’s the moral of this story? It is incredibly difficult to treat and heal the subconscious mind by appealing to the conscious mind. Emotionally unavailable men have spent years building up their walls. They’re coldness is a coping mechanism, that protects them from further harm. So if you want them to open up. You’re going to have to appeal to the subconscious mind. I’ve said it time and time again, the real magic happens when you’re able to appeal to the subconscious mind. The shamans do this when they talk about the shadow side of self. When a shaman travels, they are exploring the shadow side of the self, and treating those suppressed issues. It is a process that is called, transforming darkness into light. You can do the same thing. Here’s how:
How to work with my emotionally unavailable husband.
- People are starting to get into the habit of being mechanical. The problem with being mechanical is that you are never able to build your intuition. Naturally, we understand the intuition is an important part of magic.
- So, I want you to lie down and focus on the Eagle. (you can use meditation music, or shamanic drumming.
- Imagine the Eagle penetrating the mind and crawling into the subconscious mind.
- Take note of your thoughts, and your feelings. Chances are, your thoughts and feelings are not yours, but his.
- Light two pink candles. Focus on making the connection.
- Set the intention of connecting with him in your sleep.
- Set the intentions of allowing your souls to connect while you sleep.
- Allow your souls to take over from there.
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