How to stop loving someone you can’t be with: Powerful shamanic healing ritual

Stop wasting your time and energy thinking about a person who you can never be with. Instead, perform this powerful shamanic ritual and manifest someone who truly wants to be with you.

I get so many requests from both men and women. They, want to learn how to get their ex back. Others want to know how they can get someone to notice them, or be interested in them. All these questions are tricky because they revolve around the all time forbidden and most taboo topic in the world, sexual energy. Yes, love and relationships, even desires are all about sexual energy. Sadly, many people in the Western World, in particularly in the United States are suffering from suppressed sexual energy. Besides, there is no one really out there to help you understand how these things work. So, in this video, I am going to explain to you how to use your sexual energy, to not only get over that guy or girl who hurt you. But, I am also going to give you a small ritual on how you can heal, and manifest love into your life, so stay tuned.

How to stop loving someone who doesn’t love you

The first thing that women need to understand is that there is no such thing as casual sex. I know, there are certain fictional characters such as Samantha from Sex in The City, who felt liberated enough to express herself sexually. But keep in mind, Samantha, much like a great deal of men, used the physical act of sex, to combat her innate desire for love and intimacy.  Ladies and gentlemen, let’s be real here. We are attracted to certain people for a reason. We all have that one person who drives us crazy, who makes us weak in the knees. Why do we feel this way? We feel this way because our subconscious mind has a need that needs to be filled.  Naturally, the person we are attracted to, represents a suppressed or unmet need. The more the desire or the need is suppressed the more we are attracted to the other person.

How to stop loving someone you can’t have

So now, let’s talk about suppressed sexual energy. Now, suppressed sexual energy can turn negative and come out in very grotesque and perverted ways.  We can see how sexual energy can really turn sour by watching movies such as Fatal Attraction. In this movie, a one night stand turns deadly, when a woman, tittering on the verge of madness decides to stalk and terrorize her lover.  I know this is a movie, but let’s be real here. There are a lot of women who aren’t that far from engaging in these types of behaviors. So why does this happen? Why does something such as a one night stand, or a harmless tryst, turn deadly?

How to stop loving someone who hurt you

Well, have you ever seen a volcano erupt? Just imagine all of that hot lava boiling and sizzling until it explodes. Well, the same thing is happening with your sexual energy. If you’re someone who has gone years upon years, without getting your needs met. You’re going to have a lot of pent up sexual energy. Then, that special someone comes along, who you can’t resist. Then, you can’t control it, and thus the sexual energy rises up, and erupts very much like a volcano. Only, your sexual energy isn’t clean, it been pent up, buried, and suppressed inside of you for so long, that it has turn sour. So, instead of your sexual energy being used for creation and love, it actually has the opposite effect of degradation and destruction.

How to stop loving someone who loves someone else

Now, the other thing that I want to point out here, is that sexual energy is used strictly for creativity. I know, it sounds hard to believe, but your sexual energy actually has two purposes. The first purpose is for you to pro-create. The other purpose is for you to take sexual energy and transmute it into loving energy. I know, that sounds contrary to everything that you’ve ever heard about love and yes relationships. You’ve been told (brainwashed) that it is okay to have casual sex, to have one night stands, to have wild tryst and rendezvous. However, no one has told you that in many of these cases, you are losing power and precious energy. Hey, I am not one to knock the life-style. Besides, I want you to do you boo. However, I want you to understand the power of sexual energy, before you decide to half-heartily throw it away.

How to stop loving someone but stay friends

I didn’t understand my sexual energy and power as a woman. And yes, in many situations, I’ve often found myself facing rejection. I remember my first heartbreak like it was yesterday. The man who I was in love with, was with another woman. I remember watching them hug and kiss and the club that we both regularly attended. I remember running into the bathroom, and weeping like a baby while sitting on the toilet. Yes, I was one of those pitiful women, crying her eyes out in the bathroom stall, with a wad of toilet paper, wet and sticky from snot, in my hand. How could this have happened? I thought while sobbing. My girlfriend, as gracious as she was, “talked me off of the ledge,” and led me out of the club to save me further embarrassment. This was a hard lesson. From it, I learned to never make assumptions when it came to relationships. I also learned that I should never waste sexual energy. What do I mean by that?

How to stop loving someone too much

Well, you see we women are built differently, and for good reason. While men are taught and come with programmed to spread their seed far and wide. We women are taught and come and programmed to transmute sexual energy into loving energy. Let’s just take a closer look at the chakra system so you can see what I mean. Noticed that the second chakra is considered a lower form of energy, and the heart chakra is considered a higher form of energy. Well, the whole purpose of sexual energy, is for it to rise up and stimulate the third chakra, and thus stimulate the heart chakra. This results in the euphoric and pleasing sensations that we know as love. Sadly, what happens is that a lot of women get the energy to rise up inside of themselves and not their partners.  As a result, they experience the love, and yet the love is not reciprocated by their partners.

How to stop dealing with rejection in love

Some women, and yes men, spend their whole lives being in love with someone who they can never be with. Others, spend their whole lives still in love with their ex. All because they were able to stimulate and activate their own 2^nd 3^rd and 4^th chakra, but not the chakras of their lover or love interest. So, what is the solution to all of this? Well, I told you in the very beginning that we were attracted to people for a reason. I explained that the attraction stemmed from a suppressed need or unmet desire, blah, blah, blah. Now, the reason why people who are hopelessly in love with someone who they will never be with, is because, they subconsciously believe that the other person can meet their unmet needs and suppressed desires.

How to deal with rejection in love

So, in order for you to break this connection that you have with this person, you’re going to have to figure out ways to get your own needs met. And no, I don’t mean pulling out that vibrator. I am talking about your needs for love, for intimacy, your need for a true connection. I know, it sounds impossible today. However, back in the day, our ancestors used to do a little something to combat loneliness and isolation. They used to marry the spirit. Now, marrying the spirit sounds absolutely crazy today. However, you can find comfort in knowing that when you marry the spirit, you’re allowing the spirit to give you all that your missing in your relationship. In short, you’re allowing the spirit to satisfy virtually all of your needs and desires.

How to get over rejection from someone you love

I remember reading about the Dali Lama, in an a very candid and off beaten interview, someone asked him if he ever got lonely. The Dali Lama responded with a resounding no. No! The seventy-year-old virgin never gets horny! He has never once desired the comforts of a woman, or a man for that matter! The Dali Lama continued to say that he was connected to source, and as long as he was connected to source, he never felt compelled to be with anyone. That’s deep and very true. In fact, I will take this concept further and say that many of our relationship troubles stem from our inability to have a connection with Nature, Source, Universe, Orisha, Lwa, you take your pick.

Powerful shamanic healing techniques

Now, what can you do to stop loving someone and attract someone into your life? You want to know the truth, without all the spiritual and metaphysical babble. Well, you’re going to have to marry the spirit. Relax, it’s not as bad as It sounds. You don’t have to make some pack with the devil or become possessed by some demon like entity. Instead, you’re going to align your heartbeat with the earths hear- beat. I am sure that you’ve heard about the shamanic drumming and it’s healing powers. The drumming doesn’t just heal you of your suppressed trauma and afflictions, it also works to raise your frequencies and your vibrational level. It works using a little scientific concept known as entrainment.

Shamanic energy healing, what to expect

I won’t get into entrainment in this article, because I talk about it extensively in my other articles. However, suffice it to say that like attracts like. So, when you increase your vibrations, you have a better chance of attracting someone into your life, who can truly meet your needs. Here’s how:

Letting go of a lost love

1. Download or buy a shamanic drumming CD from Amazon, or iTunes
2. Lay down outside, with your back straight (it is best to lay down on grass or a patch of soft dry land). You can go to a park and lay down under a tree for an added affect
3. Close your eyes and listen to shamanic drumming using your earphones.
4. In time, you’re actually going to feel the earth’s heartbeat. It’s a remarkable feeling
5. Do this until you feel better, or until you no longer have a connection to the person you thought that you were in love with.

Manifesting a new love

1. Download or buy a shamanic drumming CD from Amazon or iTunes
2. Lay down outside, under a tree. It is best to lay in a patch of land or on a bed of cushy grass
3. Close your eyes and make sure that your back is straight and that your legs are uncrossed
4. Relax until you feel the Earth’s heartbeat
5. Once you feel the Earth’s heartbeat, start setting the intentions of manifesting that special someone
6. Think about them, how do they look? How do they smell? How do they treat you? Remember, the more detail you are, the better the manifestation
7. Make a small offering to the earth: flowers, water, chocolate, make sure that you take the wrappers off, you don’t want to litter.

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